|How much time do you recommend for a first appointment?
I will always recommend 1 1/2 to 3 hours for a first encounter. There is simply no substitute for being able to take our time to learn about each other,
deeply exploring the possibilities of our mutual interests...to let the intensity build and savor each activity slowly and intentionally. If this not possible
for you, 60 minute sessions are also available. Be aware that even with a shorter meeting, we will still be taking some time before play begins to sit
down and discuss interests. I will NOT skip this step no matter how much of a rush you are in.
|What do I need to do to prepare for an appointment?
Prepare to arrive on time, sober, clean and dressed in neat "vanilla" clothing. It is inappropriate for you to arrive in any sort of fetish attire or cross
dressed in any way shape or form. A shower immediately before hand is required, but I do have one available here if needed. Also, if you are
*hoping* for anal play, an enema several hours ahead of time is paramount. Last but not least, it is beneficial for you to focus your thoughts on
what you'd really like out of your session - be realistic in those expectations and be ready to convey them to me in as much detail as possible. I am
unable to read minds and my professional experience does not give me the super human ability to "just know" how to read you and what you enjoy
before I've gotten to know you. Communication is key and it is your responsibility!
How do you handle sanitation?
Diligently! I use only the highest quality medical grade disinfectants primarily Sporiciden, Cavicide, Citrus 3, alcohol, bleach and leather/rubber safe
sanitizers. I thoroughly cleanse ALL items used during a session after each and every use. Click Here for more detailed information.
|Do I get to tell you what I'd like to do?
Absolutely! While I won't offer you a chance to fully script your session, I will be
tailoring a scene to fit your wants, needs and curiosities. I simply do not offer 'one
size fits all' appointments, so open communication is vital!
When booking, we'll fully cover your interests and limits so I can begin preparing
your session. Once you arrive, we will take a few more moments to cover things in a
little more depth and make sure nothing left out during our phone chat for clarity.
|Do you take same day appointments?
I strongly recommend and prefer that my visitors book at least one day in advance. I will always welcome calls for same day sessions If I have the
time available to do so, but this generally only occurs when I have a cancellations. My time does book out as the day wears on and though I am
available until 11pm, I do stop taking visitors when I've expended my energy regardless of the time. Same day requests are best made in the early
part of the day.
|Is BDSM painful?
This is usually everyone's first concern when they begin exploring professional
BDSM, and let me assure you; these exchanges are based on fantasy, eroticism and
BDSM is about personal exploration; my scenes are uniquely designed for your
enjoyment (and mine) so nothing happens here that doesn't directly result in
pleasure; whether physical, mental or emotional, it's meant to be enjoyable. I do offer
a wide range of interests, some of which are purely sensual and others that have
more varying tones of intensity. It's all up to what each individual suitor craves the
What kind of space do you have?
For the last few years, I've had the largest and most elaborately equipped private
dungeon in Seattle! Lavish, discreet and conveniently located just 3 miles from
Downtown Seattle's City Center. It is easily accessible from both I 5 & I 90, with free
parking. I am near all major downtown hotels in a very cab friendly area if you are
The decor is tasteful, functional and appropriate for pleasure and comfort. My
spacious dungeon is well equipped with a laundry list of bondage furniture,
thousands of toys and tools, 3 separate themed rooms, a fully equipped shower,
heating, fireplace and AC.
|Do you ever switch or take on a submissive role?
No. The idea of playing the submissive just doesn't appeal to me in the slightest. I am naturally Dominant and only find pleasure that position.
Do I have to be submissive to see you?
Not at all. I happily offer BDSM sessions without D/s protocol or power exchange. We can absolutely just have fun acting out our fantasies.
|Do you ever date your clients?
I am offering my time on a professional basis, please do not inquire beyond that.
|Do you train others women to be Dominatrixes?
No. Training to be a Mistress takes a huge amount of time, effort, energy and risk - certainly more than you could ask of an absolute stranger. The
best way to develop your skills is by getting involved in the local BDSM community and attending play parties, workshops and seminars. This will all
help you gain experience and become more established with the local players who may turn out to be your future clients. There are plenty of
resources out there, regrettably I do not have time or energy to assist in that way.
Do you ever rent or share your dungeon?
No, I do not. For privacy, security, legal and insurance reasons, I do not rent/share/lend my dungeon out to others in any capacity.
|Do you enjoy every scene you do?
I always enjoy myself! In fact, I can only recall a handful of sessions in my entire career that I regret.
I am picky, I don't take every appointment that comes my way just because someone figured out how to get in touch with me. I require compatible
interests or for you to be flexible and open to new things. Of course, an enthusiastic attitude doesn't hurt either when calling to inquire about a
Playing with partners best suited for me, lends high probability to a wonderfully connective and intense encounter for both of us. The only instances
where I have not enjoyed myself to the fullest extent, have always been the direct result of rude behavior, the absolute absence of communication
or excessively poor hygiene.
|Are you looking for a personal slave?
No, but I do offer appointments geared towards learning to serve me as well as role play fantasies where you become my personal slave. It will
always be done on a professional basis and my time will always carry a tribute, it will never lead into anything in my personal life and is entirely a